How To Keep A Special Relationship With A Classmate

compiled by Enda Hidayat

Based on my experience, having a special relationship can not be separated in the lecture, it will be unforgettable things. Togetherness in the classroom continuously can cause the attraction between men and women. Having a special relationship with a classmate have a positive and negative benefits, in the positive way a relationship with a classmate can be motivation in learning, but sometimes the negative impact such as the problems arising from that relationship that will be disturb the concentration one of them, but it can be avoided in order to keep the relationship well and afford a positive benefits so it does not disturb in the learning process.

In this chance, I will share some ways to keep a special relationship with a classmate based on my experience :

1. Making a commitment 

A commitment is the main thing in a relationship witha woman, the agreements contain a commitment that aims to limit and control some behaviors in a special relationship.As an example of a man are usually committed to be faithful to one woman, different case with some women that committed to her boyfriend, a woman usually wants to leave and go home from campus with her boyfriend with a shuttle could be a commitment.

2. Trust each other

Trust is a basic in establishing a relationship. In the student’s life is always colored with an individual or group tasks, sometimes this couldbe a problem when doing the task and not together, so this is where the trust has an important role, we must trust our girlfriend and give freedom especially in the academic field.

3. Respect each other

Lots of little things are very preciousin your girlfriend.Do not underestimate any small thing, because big things caused from little things. Like smiling when meet with your girlfriend, because a little smile will increase her spirit in learning. Another example is when your partner is finished doing a presentation in front of the class, give praise to her so that your girlfriend more motivated in learning.

4.Not show intimacy

This statement is one thing that should be included in the commitment. As we know in class activities closely related to the learning process. Show too much intimacy will make you feel isolated, because in fact some of your friends will feel ashamed when they saw you too excessive in your intimacy. In addition, your friends will feel awkward to interactwith you.

5. Keep the communication

Although located in a one activity in theclass, of course, we must always keep our communication. Do not be too busy with your friends without any communication with your girlfriend. Because it can make your girlfriend feels neglected. Keep the communication with your girlfriend even if only with asmile, a littlechat, or a text message.

6. Keep the appearance

Certainly your girlfriend do not want have a boy friendthat looks bad, more over you meet her any time in the classroom. Good looking make your girlfriend do not feel bored when you met. In addition, look more appealing make you pay more attention to your girlfriend and keep the interestofother men.

Having a girlfriend with your classmate is a choice although it will affect the activity of learning process. Good communication in a relationship will make us more motivated in the learning process and make a positive impact in the academic field. But if wedo not keep a good communication in that relationship, it will affect the learning process and get a negative impact in the academic field.