How To Build A Lasting Relationship

compiled by Asih Septiany W.

Most of women hope their relationship with a man is the last relationship that they interlace. A serious man in relationshipis everywoman's dream. However, as I have a relationship with a man is always filled with complex problems, problems that can rise from personal problem or an issue a rising from the commitment of the relationship itself. But, everything can be solved in an appropriate ways. Here, I want to share some ways to build a lasting relationship :

1. Being an number one encouragement of your boyfriend.

Let your boyfriend know how important the was to you and the world. A bustle sometimes making the relationship was slacken. One of which is caused due to stress from the bustle of living, the spirit from someone special is a solution of this problem. Some of them are reluctant to ask for help from a girlfriend some of them even feel ashamed to ask some help from a female partner. This is the time for women to understand more the needs of their boyfriend, try to always offer help even though sometime she refused.

2. As a couple, you should talk about anything and everything, because in a successful relationship there is no hidden secret.

Basically, dating is unites two individuals that have a lot of difference, sometimes dissent is often caused the problem in a relationship. So, we as women should try to invite our boyfriend to be able talking to each other about problems in his life because basically a man reluctant to talk about what happened. Do a lot of sharing or vent it is appropriate to solve this problem, with the openness, it will be found the right solution.

3. Keep your emotions when talking about sensitive problems.

Sometimes most men are less able to understand the feelings of women who are more sensitive. Thus, a man should be able to adjust their speech to the women, most of men are not aware of his words is quite impact on the women's feelings.

4. Treating your boyfriend as you want to be treated and familiarize to love and respect.

A good behaviour will get a good response too. But sometimes can’t be denied treatment of women as well we can’t be understood by men, they are always selfish in their stance. It would really hurt our sensitive feelings. But it's good if we try to start it all with kindness, he will respond all of our behaviour and will reply with a good behaviour too. 

5. Respect your boyfriend's individuality.

Your boyfriend is a complex individual with many ideas and desires, so do not limit his ability.Sometimes the problems arising from woman possessive attitude, because they felt frightened and disturbed by a third person.Mutual respect and trust ourboyfriendis the perfect solution top revent this problem.

6. Smile and laugh together as often as possible.

A smile is the simplest expression, but has the most powerful effects.It is a very simple thing, but men often ignore it and undergo a monotonous relationship. Relationship colored by the joke make us not bored, and make us comfort.

7. Use a soft touch as a language of love to communicate, like touch your girlfriend when you praise her.

One man's ability that highly favored women is their way of praise or seduce women. Thus, men sometimes necessary to praise and make her heart pleased with romantic words.

8. Fill your day with interesting thing and a surprise thing.

Busyness make your boyfriend's mind highly saturated, so we should take time to enjoy interesting things. Give your boyfriend the words that make him happy and raise his spirits.

Remember thatyour boyfriendis also an ordinary man. Every human have a different condition, don't forced our desire with excessive requests. Receive and appreciate his condition is the perfect choice for keeping your relationship. Life is filled with complex problems and it may happen to your boyfriend. Thus, mutual understanding is important thing in a relationship.